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Impressive students…they are out there, and they are thinking of others….


Posted On:Mar 13, 2008

It was a week ago tonight, about this time, that I was sharing dinner with a younger crowd.  Yes, they thought they just might like to share an hour or two with me.  I’m talking about high school juniors and seniors. 
Surprised?  Yes, me too.  It’s been a decade, (okay, a little more), since I was in their shoes thinking just of myself, I’m sure.  But, not these kids.  Chris Holley, Amanda Stanley, Logan White and Brandi Cole are Health Occupation Students of America at David Crockett High School in Washington County, TN. 
How did I get to know them?  Through the Autism Walk they helped spearhead in February.  That was the first sign I was dealing with kids who are thinking more about how to help the world around them than they are of themselves.  I followed the progression of the planning of their walk.  They made more than one appearance on News Channel 11 trying to get YOU, our viewers, to think more about the struggle of others. 
After weeks of coverage of the planning and the event itself, which brought in more than 25 hundred dollars for Autismspeaks.org, I got an invitiation.  Selena, please come to dinner with us.  We want to thank you.  Thank me?  We should be thanking these kids for a lesson in generosity.  So, it was dinner at Cheddars and a gift card. 
Five years covering events in the Tri-Cites, involving children and adults, and a thank you comes from an unlikely source.  It is unexpected.  I’m just doing my job.  I love it.  But, it’s not one you do for thanks.  Doing the right thing doesn’t mean doing it for thanks.  I tried to explain that to them.  It was thrown right back in my face.  “We’re not thanking you to get something in return,” they said. “It’s just the right thing to do.”
I tried to spend the evening picking their brains.  What do you want to do?  Where are you going to school?  You know, asking quesitons like reporters do.  Guess where the conversation led?  “Selena, how can we do something to thank our teacher, Mrs. Lori Grabner?” Yes, it truly was an evening of thinking of others. 
At News Channel 11, we have not run our Educator of the Week segment this school year.  But, I can pass the message on here.
Mrs. Grabner, your students appreciate you so much they’re willing to spend part of their evening speaking of your greatness and your dedication to students.  They’ve been worried about your health.  They credit you for helping them hold it together as they stressed out over their Autism Walk, the first of it’s kind in our region.  They think you deserve more respect than you get.  And, they want it said out loud. 
Mrs. Grabner, you are clearly one of the adults who have guided these impressive students, these young adults, down the right path.  Lucky for me I was able to cross paths with them, too. 

Posted by Selena Wiles


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Posted by ( Gail Vines ) on March 14, 2008 at 9:29 am

I to am inpressed by the girls from Crockett.My niece, Katie Harrell and her friend Ashley Jones were at Bristol for the walk as part of the clowns troup. The weather was so bad, but yet the girls did a great job. Crockett has some wonderfull and caring people in their school. It is great to hear other people think so.

Posted by ( Lori Grabner ) on March 20, 2008 at 8:18 am

Dear Selena,
First, I would like to thank you for sending me this.  This is exactly the reason I chose to teach.  I wanted to make a difference in the life of students who are still moldable and young enough to change.  As a RN, I was able to help the sick, the dying and the needy to reach goals for better health or acceptance of death.  However, I feel that the future of our country is the youth of today.  I wanted to do more.  I am only one person, but if one person can affect more than one to continue to carry the torch, then the effects would be as a pebble dropped into a pond rippling outward into eternity.  So, this is why I teach!!  Students like Amanda Stanley, Logan White (I helped to deliver her into this world) Chris Holley and Brandy Cole are just 4 of the wonderful students I get to work with every day!  The future of the healthcare lies within their hands, and I believe it is through serving others that they will change the future.  No bigger or wonderful thanks could I ever receive than seeing them achieve greatness.  I need no flowers or cards or candy to be fulfilled!  To be able to live to see them change the world one corner at a time, one life at a time, is all the fulfillment I need.  They are truly unique young people, and I will watch them as they grow........I can’t wait to see what great things they will accomplish.  As for your work, you hold the power to help so many with just acknowledgment and support.  It was the support of you and your station that spurred them on to finish the walk.  You have an ability and gift to help others, and you use it well.  I appreciate you being willing to spend time with teenagers and their cause.  I know that you are a busy busy person and could have been many places that night, but you chose to be with them.  That is where your greatness lies.  By the way, I began in college to be in broadcasting, and my dream was to be like you.  A summer spent working with developmentally disabled children showed me that I was meant to become a nurse.  Then, through nursing, I found that I was meant to teach others about helping others to live and accept life’s stages.  I think it is great how you take the field of broadcasting and journalism and use it to help others within the realm of medical and educational issues.  Keep up the great work, Selena!  You are truly using your gifts to bless others, for you have surely blessed my students and many others.

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